In the twinkling of an eye, a summer vacation has passed. Every parent has had a happy but somewhat tangled summer vacation with their children.
The most heard during the week was near the end of the month, and parents seemed to be counting down. The same topic is discussed in each campus parent group; there are XX days, children are going to school, finally liberated, and so on.
However, today's major media are exploding in an article titled "The recent sneak peek at the entrance to the kindergarten. They are not traffickers." Once again, I will touch the heart of Bao Dabao.
Every parent has a heart that is involved with the baby. At this moment, they completely forget the children’s school. The topic they had a few days ago “the child is liberated when he goes to schoolâ€
They are only full of care, have fun, have concerns, and have the urge to rush in to pick up the baby.
But what we must face is that our angels and princes are gradually adult, they have their own independent thinking, we should stand in their place to think. Since they are independent individuals, they have their own personalities, habits, choices, and so on.
Bao Dabao's mother in the big class can review some news god comments!
Do these comments have the mood to find the first day you send your child to kindergarten?
The child is the "meat" of the parents, and this piece of meat will be left behind sooner or later, leaving us with our hearts. That being the case, why don't we give them a space for self-development soon?
In fact, from the moment they leave our arms to deal with their own diet, hygiene and so on (except for when they are sick, we must solve and accompany us). In fact, they have long wanted to have their own independent world. Sooner or later, they will have to face their own social and emotional feelings, accept new knowledge that we have never received, and so on. Parents' concerns are ultimately more or less an additional burden for children. One is that they will be over-reliant and thus difficult to be independent, and the other is to gradually realize that parents are “monitoring†their behavior, and thus more or less prematurely rebellious!
That's all; Bao Dabao mothers, let the little angels grow freely? In order not to be their psychological and spiritual burden, parents who are parents only strive to make themselves better, and will bring greater help to their growth.
Keep in mind that educating children is more about the principle and the bottom line of the framework and the supply of material conditions and the guide of the rules, rather than modeling casting, not even the control of spiritual imprisonment and cage!
Since it is considered to be liberating, please let your heart liberate part, and there are fewer unnecessary fears. Trust schools, trust children, and trust yourself!
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